Mother of the Bride Writes Offensive Letter About Daughter's Maid of Honor

_{Mother of the Bride Writes Offensive Letter About Daughter's Maid of Honor} By Evelyn Wang via Brides Magazine Published on September 11, 2017 Please never do this.

Weddings have been known to compel even the sweetest, cuddliest people to say some pretty questionable things, but what one mom wrote about her daughter's maid of honor is completely unforgivable. In a Dear Prudence column from last week, the mother of a bride wrote in with a question that had us super worried for the well-being of Twitter user Nicole Cliffe, who prefaced it with, "I am no longer of this earth. This letter has killed me." The supremely unclassy and deeply (deeply!) offensive letter started off fine, and then quickly swerved into the territory of Momzilla-levels unheard of:

Luckily, Slate agony aunt Mallory Ortberg was quick to shut it down, being high in hilarity and low in B.S.-tolerance: A: I am having a hard time wrapping my mind around this letter. I encourage you to reread it and to ask yourself that time-honored question, “Do I sound like a villain in a Reese Witherspoon movie?” You are, presumably, sympathetic to your own situation and are invested in making sure that you come across as reasonable and as caring as possible, and yet you have written a letter indicting yourself at every turn. This girl is “like a daughter” to you, and yet you want to shove her to the side of your other daughter’s wedding just because she walks with a limp. Your daughter’s wedding will be perfect with Katie as a full and honored member of the bridal party. A limp is not a fly in the ointment; it’s a part of Katie’s life. It is not only wrong to have asked your daughter to consider excluding her best friend over this—it is ableist, and cruel, and it speaks to a massive failure of empathy, compassion, and grace on your part. You must and should apologize to your daughter immediately, and I encourage you to profoundly reconsider the orientation of your heart. We don't blame her daughter for wanting nothing to do with her mum. Of course, the letter's ridiculousness sent several Twitter users into a spiral of rage and confusion.

Read more here http://www.brides.com/story/mother-of-the-bride-offensive-letter-maid-of-honor?mbid=social_facebook

$25 Off Bridesmaids!

Yay! It's happening again!

$25 off bridesmaids for the month of September.*

Book your appointment today to come in and see some of our newest arrivals. Sequin, chiffon, tulle, and more. Shades of blues, pink, reds, and beige are hot, hot, hot!

Call us today 209-338-9333 or follow this link to book your appointment.

*$25 off promotion good September 1-31, 2017. Not valid on previously purchased or ordered merchandise. 60% deposit must be placed before discount is applied. See store for details. 

Take an extra 1/2 off sale event!

THIS PROMOTION HAS BEEN EXTENDED!

DON"T MISS OUT!

Our sale is already drastically marked down,

and now you have a chance

to take an extra 1/2 off the already marked down sale price!

Call us 209.338.9333 or follow this link to book your appointment today!

All gowns are marked to their current sale price. Extra 1/2 off will be taken at the register from the marked down price. No cash value. Not valid towards previously purchased or ordered merchandise. No refunds.

September Maids!

Join us for our September Maids Event. 

September 1st through the 30th we are offering each of your bridesmaids $25 off their special order.*

Call us today at 209.338.9333 to book your bridesmaid appointment, or follow this link to book online.

 *offer not valid towards previously ordered or purchased merchandise. No cash value. Order and 60% deposit must be completed before September 30, 2017 to receive the discount/offer. See store for further details.

CURVELICIOUS!

 

We are thrilled to host a special weekend full of curves! Thursday September 7th through Saturday September 9th we are highlighting our newest arrivals for our beautiful brides with curves.

Book your appointment today! 209.338.9333 or follow this link to request a date and time.

Tips on Shopping During Mira's Sale

We are offering a special VIB (Very Important Bride) preview Thursday July 13th and Friday July 14th. Book your bridal appointment for our special preview dates and receive an additional 10% off our sale! Call us today at 209-338-9333, follow this link, or reply to this email to book your VIB sale appointment.  Gowns by Watters, Martina Liana, Pronovias, Maggie Sottero, Sottero Midgley, Essense of Australia, Stella York, WTOO, Willowby, and more starting at $99. We must clear some of our inventory so not a single sale gown will be priced over $999.

Veils starting at $29        

Bridal Heels starting at $19.99          

Accessories as low as $12.99

Social, cocktails, bridesmaids, and MOB at $19.99 for knee length, $29.99 floor length.

Because sample sales can quickly escalate into blind, frenzied sprees, take your time figuring out what you want before you get there. No point in ripping through racks for a drop-waist only to realize it does nothing for your already disproportionately long torso. Take note of prices as you do the prelim legwork, so if and when you find a $10,000 gown for $1,000, you can yell cha-ching—that’s six months’ rent!

Manage your expectations about the level of service you will receive at a sample sale. Don’t confuse this with a real bridal appointment. You can still celebrate and pop some bubbly when you get home but since the gowns are so deeply discounted and you are shopping without an appointment during a special event, you can’t expect the same service you would typically receive if you were shopping during a scheduled appointment. You may be shopping at the same time as 5 to 30 brides all at once, and looking for the same amazing bargain. No matter what, your experience at Mira's will exciting and once you find your gown we will help book future appointments for your wedding party dresses and tuxedos.

Be very picky about who you bring with you to the sale: We do not recommend bringing more than one guest, as your own opinion matters the most. Bring a friend that is honest and decisive. After all, purchasing a gown at a sample sale is not a decision that you can sleep on. Brides who bring an entourage, thinking each friend can grab several dresses at the same time, end up being frustrated. We try to limit how many dresses are in a room at once, too many in one room will only confuse the process and possibly damage gowns. Moreover, in such a crowded and hectic environment, having so many people there with you can end up being distracting and counterproductive. With that, don't forget to get a sitter for the kiddos. 

Only buy a dress if it can realistically be altered to your size: You want to make sure the dress you get can be altered to fit you, because once you leave the store, you are on your own. These events are final sales. Remember, shoppers: At just about every sample sale, the stores will not provide alterations. Even if you swear you’re going to lose weight before the wedding, if you have a certain build and your ribcage is a certain size, you will never fit in certain dresses. How do you make sure you end up with a gown that look fabulous on you? Ask lots of questions at the sale.

NATIONAL BRIDAL SALE DAY!

Welcome to the annual National Bridal Sale Day. This day was born out of a collective desire from bridal salons nationally to help brides find their dream dress at a fraction of the price.

at Mira Bridal Couture, brides will find gowns by Watters, Maggie Sottero, Sottero Midgley, Martina Liana, Essense, Stella York, and more marked down as low as $99.*

 

No appointment required. First come, first serve. Doors open at 9am, Saturday July 15, 2017.

*All merchandise marked as is. All sales final. Cash, visa, mastercard accepted. No layaways or holds.  

WITH OVER 850 STORES PARTICIPATING AND REPRESENTATION IN NEARLY EVERY STATE PLUS CANADA, WE ARE THRILLED THAT BRIDES EVERYWHERE WILL HAVE THE OPPORTUNITY TO FIND THE GOWN OF THEIR DREAMS AT A PRICE THAT THEY LOVE.

SPECIAL OFFER

The Association of Wedding Gown Specialists has generously provided this gift certificate to any bride purchasing a gown during the National Bridal Sale Day. To take advantage of this special offer, download this coupon by clicking here and bring it with your gown to the nearest participating Certified Wedding Gown Specialist. To find the nearest location, please click here.

 

HIRING –STORE MANAGER

HIRING –STORE MANAGER 

A Career That’s Meant to Be

At Mira Bridal Couture, we empower our customers and our employees to stay true to their dreams and find the one, whether that means the wedding dress that matches her personal style—or the career that’s a perfect fit.

We’re looking for leaders with diverse backgrounds and fresh ideas to help create a uniquely personal retail experience.

Now Accepting Applications for Store Manager

The store manager manages, and is responsible for, all aspects of running a retail store. The store manager is responsible for the overall Brand Standards, product inventory, visual merchandising, recruitment, hiring, training, and scheduling of all store personnel and protecting Company assets. The store manager is accountable for the store sales performance and that our associates are following service and selling guidelines, thereby ensuring that all of our customers have an excellent shopping experience with us.

Store manager must be a self-motivated individual with an upbeat, outgoing personality and excellent communication skills, capable of serving our internal and external customers in a sincere, thoughtful, and encouraging way each and every time.

If you would like to be part of a dynamic team; can manage, recruit, lead, and coach a sales oriented team in a positive professional environment, we would love to discuss your future at Mira Bridal Couture.

Store Manager Responsibilities:

Required Experience: Minimum of 2 years prior retail management

• Lead the store to make sales plan consistently

• Develop and manage customer service strategies to deliver an A+ customer experience by ensuring active floor management at all times

• Achieve all expenses budgets including payroll

• Utilize effective scheduling practices to maximize sales while delivering A+ customer service

• Meet or exceed daily, weekly, monthly and annual sales plans

• Ensure flawless execution of all promotions, sales visual merchandising standards and strategies to maximize sales

• Build, develop and retain the entire team by providing continual coaching and follow up  through various communication tools, such as weekly management meetings, developmental conversations and in-the-moment coaching

• Build the capability and routines of all associates to improve performance and productivity

• Recruit and interview all candidates and make the final decision on all staff hires

• Provide a positive working environment and address associate issues in a timely manner

• Supervise Performance Management consistently for all associates and manages under-performers monthly through coaching and counseling or disciplinary action when appropriate

• Meet or exceed goals and objectives for store payroll management Review schedule compliance weekly to ensure accuracy

• Manage and ensure accurate daily bank deposits and store compliance with banking policy

• Monitor training of new associates in all roles within the store and determine when it is appropriate to assign other members of the management team to provide further training

• Perform all human resources duties, including I-9 compliance, personnel records, and timely communication and management of associate medical issues with Owner

• Assess and resolve customer service issues promptly, ensuring root causes are addressed, partnering with Owner

Other Duties and Responsibilities:

• Interpret, communicate, and manage visual merchandising standards and throughout the store

• Maintain the stability and reputation of the Company and the store by complying with all legal requirements  

• Write and conduct all annual performance reviews with input from other members of the management team, and by monitoring and appraising key job results and behavioral issues

• Ensure associate awareness of safety and emergency procedures

Now that we’ve popped the question, please say “I do”. Please send your resume to Mira@MiraBridal.com. 

m a i d s & m o m s e v e n t ! s a v e $ 2 5 !

For the month of May we are offering each of your bridesmaids and your MOB & MOG $25 off their order!*

We have so many styles to browse through.

From chic boho and mismatched vintage, to jaw-dropping formals.

New fabrics, updated colors, and fresh looks will make selecting your wedding party style simple.

Book your appointment today.

Give us a call at 209.338.9333 or follow this link to book your appointment online at mirabridal.com.

**Discount valid May 1-31, 2017. No cash value. $25 discount valid on new wedding party purchases and/or orders on registered Mother of the Bride and Groom, and bridesmaids. Not good towards previously placed orders or purchases. See store for further details.

New Arrival!

 

Shimmering beaded lace appliqués and crosshatching add luster and dimension to this glamorous sheath, highlighting the waistline, illusion halter over V-neck, and illusion open back. Embellished lace hem completes the gown‘s striking lines. Finished with crystal buttons over zipper closure.

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Ivory/Pewter Accent, Pearl/Pewter Accent (pictured)

Available in Sizes 0-28

Maggie Sottero Spring 2017 Trunk Show

January 13th-15th, 2017 By appointment. Request your appointment date and time by following this link...

-->My Maggie Sottero appointment.

The Maggie Sottero trunk show is the best time to get Maggie Sottero dresses. Maggie Sottero dresses are almost never ever discounted, and if you see a bridal shop advertising “Discount Maggie Sottero Wedding Dresses,” they might be  counterfeit gowns and/or the discount probably isn’t authorized by Maggie Sottero – but for this event only, Maggie Sottero and Mira Bridal Couture are giving you the amazing opportunity to take advantage of extra-special, one-time-only promotions on the über-desirable Maggie Sottero dresses.

As a Maggie Sottero Premier Retailer, Mira Bridal Couture has the opportunity to give you exclusive access to in-store Maggie Sottero trunk show promotions. With over 40 different Maggie Sottero wedding dress styles available in-store, you’re sure to find the perfect Maggie Sottero dress.

Special Holiday Hours

Holiday Hours

Monday December 19th-Thursday December 22nd, 2016 we will be closed for a quick remodel update. We will have someone available for calls or questions. Please call 209-338-9333, leave us a detailed voicemail and we will return your call within 1 day. You can also follow this link to request your appointment date and time online.

Friday December 23rd Open 11am-6pm

Saturday December 24th-Sunday December 25th Closed for the holiday

Monday December 26th-Friday December 30th 11am-6pm

Saturday December 31st-Sunday January 1st, 2017 Closed for the holiday

Monday January 2, 2017 Resume regular business hours

Lace appliqués cascade down the bodice, breathtaking scalloped hem, and illusion open-back in this tulle over Vogue satin fit-and-flare. Featuring beaded spaghetti straps, a V-neckline, and beaded embellishments. Finished with covered buttons over zipper closure. White/Pewter Accent, Ivory/Pewter Accent, Ivory over Light Champagne/Pewter Accent (pictured)

Available in Sizes 0-28

Special Holiday Hours

Special Holiday Hours Wednesday November 23, 2016 11am-4pm

Thursday November 24, 2016 Thanksgiving ~ CLOSED

Friday November 25, 2016 WHITE FRIDAY SALE 11am-4pm

Saturday November 26, 2016 9am-4pm by appointment. Call 209-338-9333 or follow this link.

Sunday November 27, 2016 11am-4pm by appointment. Call 209-338-9333 or follow this link.

Normal business hours resume Monday November 28, 2016.

2 Stunning Gowns in One

This fit-and-flare layers crosshatch-patterned tulle and romantic lace motifs over a luxe Inessa jersey slip. Short sleeves and an elegant bateau neckline feature sheer lace, while a shimmering ribbon of pearls and beading ties over the scoop back. Finished with covered buttons over zipper closure. Also available as Hudson Marie, the mini Inessa jersey slip to create an illusion skirt.

All Ivory, Ivory over Soft Blush (pictured) Available in Sizes 0-28

Romantic Fit-and-Flare

This romantic fit-and-flare features cascades of lace appliqués that trim the illusion sweetheart neckline, illusion off-the-shoulder sleeves, and illusion low back with keyhole opening. Complete with exquisite hemline of lace appliqués. Finished with covered buttons over zipper closure.

White, Ivory, Ivory over Light Gold (pictured) Available in Sizes 0-28

White Friday Sale at Mira Bridal Couture!

It's that time of year again!

Our annual White Friday Sale at Mira Bridal Couture!

Gowns as low as $99! Say YES for less!

Doors open at 11am. No appointment necessary. See details below.

Bridal gowns drastically marked down, starting as low as $99.00. All White Friday Sale gowns marked under $999.! Cash, Visa, or MasterCard only. No holds or lay-aways. All sales final. Gowns by Lazaro, Pronovias, Maggie Sottero, Sottero Midgley, Watters, Essense, and more.

Veils, bridal heels, bridal belts, and accessories as low as $19.99.

This is the BEST time to buy your gown off-the-rack.  Our sizes range from 8-16 and some of the gowns are almost NEW and EVERYTHING can be altered or customized to create your PERFECT gown. Below are some tips on how to “attack” a bridal gown sale with success.

1.  Be Open Minded.  Bridal Sale shopping can open the bride up to a variety of styles and silhouettes. These might include gowns you didn't pin on Pinterest or save from magazines.  You might find a gown with sleeves and love everything about it....but the sleeves. That's ok! You are saving so much with our sale that you can spend a little in customizing the gown to your liking. Having an open mind and working with your consultant to match your vision, body shape, and style will give you an opportunity to have the best success.

2. Consider Alterations.   Bridal gowns are made to be altered, even when you order a new gown. Don’t be shy to try on all sizes of samples.  An experienced seamstress can fit the dress to each brides body perfectly.

3. Be Ready to Say YES!  These gowns sell fast!  If you think this is your gown, do not wait.  Bring a couple of the important decision makers with you so you are not in a position to have to walk away.

4. Get Excited!!  Our White Friday Sale includes gowns from every designer in our store including designers Maggie Sottero, Sottero Midgley, Watters, Essense, Martina Liana, WTOO, Willowby by Watters, Stella York, and more.  These gowns are high quality and well made and now you are able to get these at a fraction of the retail price!

Cash, Visa, or Master Card accepted. Holds and lay-aways not available. Merchandise sold as-is. No refunds, exchanges, or credits. All sales final.

 

#beamirasbride #sayyestoyourdress #sayyesforless

One of our favorite bridal gowns for 2017 brides!

A delicate layer of ruched tulle accented in lace appliqués creates illusion off-the-shoulder sleeves,

illusion back, and illusion sweetheart neckline in this romantic fit-and-flare

arriving this winter to Mira Bridal Couture!

A layer of ruched tulle accented in lace appliqués creates illusion off-the-shoulder sleeves, illusion back, and illusion sweetheart neckline in this romantic fit-and-flare. Bodice and skirt feature beaded lace appliqués on tulle over a layer of gorgeous allover lace. Finished with covered buttons over zipper closure. Also available with strapless sweetheart neckline, Norway Lynette. Colors: Ivory Over Nude Pewter Accent, White Also See Norway Lynette

November Maids Event

This November we are celebrating your bridesmaids!

It's our November Maids Event! Each of your bridesmaids will receive $25 off their new order.*

Book your appointment at this link  or call us at 209-338-9333 today to come and shop through and select your wedding party style. Mix-n-match, floor length formal, chiffon, short & sassy. We have it all!

*Special $25 off promotion good towards all new orders placed on bridesmaids and social. Promotion not valid towards existing or previously ordered or purchased merchandise. $5 shipping & handling applies. No refunds, exchanges, or credit available. No cash value.